There is something about lady bosses….. something really sad and pathetic…. and I’m sure I have the crummiest one yet
This is a lady who is so insecure about her position… that she has become an insufferable control freak. She wants to be looped in to everything…. keeps asking for updates by the minute… gets upset if you haven’t had a conversation with her for a day…
We guys have a history… the history being my miscarriage. I don’t think I can ever forget how insensitively she behaved. She kept guilt tripping me about all the assignments that the team was losing out on, because I was unavailable.. about how I wasn’t someone she could count upon because I not be able to finish things… I was fickle and lazy.
I remember requesting her to allow me to work from home when things weren’t going well and she made me go on leave… to the point that I don’t have leaves for Diwali…
And that she had a “1 on 1” with me when I was still nursing my heart.. and body… and drove me to tears telling me that I had not taken tast A to its completion… (and this was while I was still miscarrying!)
…and the bl**dy insensitive b***ch that she is … today she brings up ‘Quarter 2’ in my performance appraisal discussion and tells me how I have not performed at all on X, Y, Z counts and asks me to prepare a list of things I did… to prove her otherwise…
…I’m so angry…. I wish that she gets to pay for this…. that God steps in and teaches her a lesson.
She needs some lessons in humanity and empathy and consideration. Hell… she needs to learn management!! I don’t know why they bring in underqualified people to wreck havoc on the rest.
… I’m going to stop ranting.. and do something… and I will keep you guys posted…
October 12, 2010 at 8:18 pm
hugs…
October 13, 2010 at 6:52 pm
Thanks! Huggs back!
October 12, 2010 at 11:59 pm
Oh God! She really sounds supremely insensitive!!! I had one too like that and I hated her like crazy!!! I really hope you find a solution to this soon, dear.
October 13, 2010 at 6:54 pm
You put it correctly! I hate her like crazy myself… can’t stand to wish her “Good mrning”
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October 13, 2010 at 12:16 am
OH MY GOD..you report to someone like that..?? I don’t know how you can stand her..I would have been ranting and raving all over the place..
Hope things work out well for you.. hugs..
October 13, 2010 at 6:55 pm
Errm…. I have been raving and ranting all over the place! 😀 Ask H!
Thanks… I hope things work out too!
October 13, 2010 at 6:35 pm
Me too ,have a “bad boss” experience in my previous job..could not take the torture after sometime…i can understand your situation..Good Luck and my Wishes…
October 13, 2010 at 7:05 pm
Thanks yaar! I need all the luck to deal with her!